12 July 2025
Navigating the internet safely is like learning to ride a bike—once your child knows how to do it right, it opens up a world of possibilities. But just like you wouldn’t send your kid out onto a busy street without training wheels and a helmet, letting them loose on the web without guidance isn’t the best idea either. Especially when they’re doing school projects that require research.
As parents, we’re all trying to strike that tricky balance between encouraging independence and ensuring safety. And when it comes to researching online, there’s a lot more to it than just typing into Google. So, let’s break it all down and dive into how you can help your child become a smart, safe digital detective.
Safe online research is about teaching kids to filter the noise, avoid sketchy websites, and find reliable info for their schoolwork. It helps them build good habits early on, which will serve them well throughout school and life.
- Not everything on the internet is true
- Some websites might be misleading or even harmful
- Personal information should never be shared online
- You’re there to help if they’re unsure about something
Think of this talk as your pre-game pep talk. It sets the tone and builds trust.
- Only use the internet in public spaces like the living room
- Ask before clicking on unfamiliar links or downloading files
- Stick to teacher-recommended websites and safe search engines
- Limit distractions—no YouTube side quests during homework time
Write them down. Post them near the computer. Even better? Create a family tech agreement, and have everyone sign it. That way, you’re all on the same team.
Try these:
- Kiddle (kiddle.co): A Google-powered search engine designed for kids
- KidRex (kidrex.org): Fun, simple, and safe
- Safe Search Kids: A Google-powered tool with a strict filter
Encourage your child to bookmark these, and make them the default homepage on their device.
Here’s how:
- Check the source: Is it a reputable site? (Think .edu, .gov, or established organizations)
- Look for the author: Is the writer an expert or just someone with an opinion?
- See when it was published: Is the info still current?
- Compare multiple sources: Can they find the same info elsewhere?
You can even make it fun—ask them to prove something wild (like whether elephants can really jump) and have them verify it with multiple sources.
Teach them how to spot:
- Sponsored content (usually tagged as “Ad” or “Sponsored”)
- Clickbait titles (“You won’t believe what happened next…”)
- Pop-ups and sidebars loaded with flashy images
Use real examples to show the difference, and they’ll get the hang of it quickly.
- Never fill out forms without asking a parent
- Don’t sign up for websites without permission
- Avoid chatting with strangers, even if they seem “nice”
Remind them that if something feels off, they should tell you right away. No judgment, no punishment—just open communication.
- Google Family Link (for Android)
- Apple Screen Time (for iOS)
- Qustodio
- Bark
Set up filters, monitor activity, and get alerts if something seems fishy. But remember, these tools can’t teach judgment—only you can do that.
Tools like:
- Google Docs or Microsoft Word for digital notes
- Citation Machine for easy bibliographies
- Evernote or OneNote for organizing research
Make this part of the project routine. It builds good habits and keeps them from scrambling the night before a big deadline.
Encourage them to:
- Write in their own words
- Use quotation marks when copying directly
- Always give credit to sources
A good rule of thumb? If they didn’t know it before reading it online, they should probably cite it.
As you go, point out:
- Which websites are helpful
- How to tell if a source is reliable
- What to avoid
This kind of hands-on learning sticks way better than lectures. Plus, it shows your child that you’re invested and available.
Kids gain confidence when they know you trust them, but they also feel safer knowing you’ve got their back.
So give them that digital "helmet." Set the rules, guide the way, and cheer them on as they ride toward independence—with their heads full of knowledge and their online safety on point.
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Online SafetyAuthor:
Austin Wilcox